Guidelines
How we hold this space.
Short version: assume the person on the other side is real, slow down, and don't be a creep.
Show up like a person.
Real names aren't required, but real presence is. Empty profiles with one photo and "DM me" get less of everyone's time. People here came for considered conversation. Bring some.
Lead with curiosity.
Ask before you assume. About someone's role, their experience, their orientation, what they're actually looking for. The first message is not the place to negotiate a scene.
Consent is the floor, not the ceiling.
Don't send unsolicited images, including the ones you're proud of. Don't push past a no, even a soft one. Don't keep going after someone stops responding.
Posts and replies.
In the forum: be generous, be specific, be willing to be wrong. Sharp disagreement is welcome. Contempt isn't. If a thread is making you small, leave it.
Images.
Tag suggestive and explicit images correctly. Confirm you have consent from everyone in the frame and that everyone is 18+. If you're not sure, don't post it. The blur is on by default for a reason — don't try to game it.
What we won't allow.
- Minors. Any account we identify as under 18 is removed. Any sexual content involving minors is reported to law enforcement.
- Non-consensual imagery. Including images of an ex, screenshots from elsewhere, deepfakes. Removed on sight, account banned.
- Threats and doxxing. Sharing real-world identity, location, or workplace without consent gets you banned.
- Coercion. Pressuring someone into a dynamic, scene, content, or relationship. Including soft coercion: guilt, withdrawal, "if you really cared."
- Commerce. No paid content, no "spoil me," no findom solicitation, no ads. Other platforms exist.
- Hate. Targeting someone for who they are — race, gender, orientation, body, disability — is not edge. It's just hate.
How moderation works.
Reports go to a human. Critical reports (minor safety, non-consensual imagery) jump the queue. We err on the side of removing content quickly and discussing afterward — appeals work, and we mean it.
Bans are reversible if we got it wrong. Email safety@kinkiest.app with your handle and what happened.
The contract.
You're 18 or older. You'll treat consent as ongoing. You won't post anything of someone who didn't say yes to it being here. You'll report what scares you. We'll read it.
That's all of it.