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For polyamorous & ENM

Polyamory and ENM, taken seriously.

Mark your orientation as polyamorous, open, ENM, or relationship anarchist. Find people who do the same. Use tools that don't assume monogamy.


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Multiple connections, properly modelled

Each connection has its own settings, task book, ledger, and agreements. Nothing forces a 'primary'. Nothing assumes one shape.

02

Honest conversation

Forums for hierarchy, parallel vs kitchen-table, jealousy, scheduling, KTP, polyfidelity, and everything in between. Long-form, written by people in it.

03

Find people who actually match

Filter the directory by orientation. Skip people who say 'open to anything' and mean monogamous. Read what they wrote.


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